Did you just read my proposals or did you try them out ?
I get a popup message saying: can't be done while the explorer is open
I just put a file on my destop, run "cmd"
(as an Administrator) in "Runx", left the "cmd window" open, went to the "Taskmanager" and stopped the task "Explorer.exe". The screen went black, but the cmd console was still there and worked. I put in at the cmd prompt: "del c:\users\MY NAME\Desktop\FILE NAME" and hit enter. (
After the "del" cmd, there is no confirmation from cmd prompt).
After restart the file was gone !